The ability to have anything you want from your submissive is intoxicating. It’s a thrill knowing that, within established limits, you can have anything you want from her, at any time. 

And chances are, she will enjoy giving it to you and gain a sense of pleasure and fulfillment from being given th...

When Andrew first asked me to be his submissive, I was a little surprised.  My only experience with this was reading the 50 Shades of Gray books.  He was very careful and deliberate in his explanation of what a Dom/sub relationship meant to him, and how it was different than what I’d read.  He wante...

Dawn has used the term “perfectionist” to describe herself, and its something I’ve worked very hard to help her let go of. 

“Perfectionist” is a label that she gave herself, or a label that someone gave her when she was young, that she took on and made a part of her identity. The truth is, though, ...

Note: This post was originally published in April 2021, when we were fairly new to sharing our Dom/sub dynamic online. A lot has changed and grown for us since then, but the heart behind this post still remains true, and I'm resharing it unedited for that reason. 

We’ve been more open about our D...