Healthy, embodied, masculine Dominance requires that we are solid and congruent, inside and out.
And it is not possible to be aligned in this way without knowing what your values are. Your values are your north star. They should guide your actions and your decisions, so that as time goes by...
This is still our most watched Podcast interview ever! Lots has changed in the three years since this interview, but it's such a fun look back at how we've grown, and how much has stayed the same.
Listen and enjoy!Listen to the interview here!
This interview went SO deep. Sophie asked such deep and poignant questions that gave us such a beautiful opportunity to share the truth of our love and relationship.
We hope you listen and enjoy!
This post was written in February 2023, on our 12th wedding anniversary. We had been discussing monogamy in conversations with several clients, and I wrote this post to explore why I have chosen monogamy. Enjoy
Men are always going to be motivated by sex. By the desire to fuck. It’s in our...
If you’re a man who is trying to step into the Dominant role in your relationship, you have probably had a point where you felt like she relentlessly fought back against your leadership.
Even if she’s agreed to follow it already.
And then find yourself asking yourself what the hell...
This post was originally written in the summer of 2022, and it's being reshared now, unedited, as a part of our move to a new website and blog platform.
This moment marked a big shift in me as a Dominant, where I learned a lesson that still reverberates in our love and my teaching. The...
It’s up to me as Dawn’s Dominant to know her completely, to see her deeply, to quite literally feel what she’s feeling.
A submissive’s needs must come before a Dominant’s wants, always. Surrender requires safety, and no submissive can feel truly safe if her needs...
As Dawn’s Dominant, it is my responsibility to lead. To make decisions. To look at the entirety of a situation and make the best decision I can.
To do this well, I first need to be grounded within myself. I have to be comfortable with my strength, and confident in my own ability to...
Dominance is like a river. Deep submission is like floating down this river. I’ve used this analogy with Dawn for years.
I also used the analogy of grabbing onto the shore of the river being like grasping for control. If you’re in a steady current and you try to stop, the water...
The purpose of this post is to explore the differences between people pleasing and submission inside of a loving Dominant/submissive relationship. Assumptions will be made here. Namely, that the relationship between Dom and sub is healthy and loving, that the Dominant is respectful and desires...
We received a question the other day from a submissive asking how she could keep her Dominant on track, so that he could then keep her on track.
Dominance can be many things, but one of the greatest delineating factors is between Dominance as a practice and Dominance as a way of being.
Dominance...
All relationships have power dynamics. D/s just discusses them openly and negotiates the terms.
Decisions are always made inside of relationships. Most often, what we see in relationships around us, is that one person “wears the pants” and the other is the follower by default.
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