This is still our most watched Podcast interview ever! Lots has changed in the three years since this interview, but it's such a fun look back at how we've grown, and how much has stayed the same.
Listen and enjoy!Listen to the interview here!
This interview went SO deep. Sophie asked such deep and poignant questions that gave us such a beautiful opportunity to share the truth of our love and relationship.
We hope you listen and enjoy!
I want Dawn to be a selfish submissive.
Humans are all selfish creatures, and we are all better off when we allow ourselves to want enjoyment out of our lives.
This doesn’t mean that our happiness requires the sacrifice of someone else.
People pleasers act as though they are being...
It’s up to me as Dawn’s Dominant to know her completely, to see her deeply, to quite literally feel what she’s feeling.
A submissive’s needs must come before a Dominant’s wants, always. Surrender requires safety, and no submissive can feel truly safe if her needs...
As Dawn’s Dominant, it is my responsibility to lead. To make decisions. To look at the entirety of a situation and make the best decision I can.
To do this well, I first need to be grounded within myself. I have to be comfortable with my strength, and confident in my own ability to...
This post was originally written by Dawn in February 2022 and is being moved here as we migrate to our new blog and website platform. This inner child work has gone much deeper since this was written, but we're moving it here unedited.
Just love yourself. It sounds so simple.
Just be yourself. I...
The purpose of this post is to explore the differences between people pleasing and submission inside of a loving Dominant/submissive relationship. Assumptions will be made here. Namely, that the relationship between Dom and sub is healthy and loving, that the Dominant is respectful and desires...
I recently received a question from a fellow submissive in our community asking
“How do you maintain complete submission in an emotional conversation or situation?”
I found that to be a very great question so I want to expand on that for others as well.
This post was originally made...
We received a question the other day from a submissive asking how she could keep her Dominant on track, so that he could then keep her on track.
Dominance can be many things, but one of the greatest delineating factors is between Dominance as a practice and Dominance as a way of being.
Dominance...
All relationships have power dynamics. D/s just discusses them openly and negotiates the terms.
Decisions are always made inside of relationships. Most often, what we see in relationships around us, is that one person “wears the pants” and the other is the follower by default.
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Submission can take the form of behaviors. Often, these are tasks, commands, and activities that the submissive partner is given by the Dominant, for a variety of reasons.
These reasons often include giving her ways to show her obedience, training her to behave in the way that the Dominant...
Let’s break down one of the biggest misconceptions in this lifestyle.
Being in a Dominant/submissive relationship DOES NOT mean that you have to be into any specific sexual acts associated with BDSM.
I believe that this association is the root cause of why we hear so many people...
