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From Bedroom D/s to 24/7: The Integration Principle
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Most couples try to build a 24/7 D/s dynamic by devoting a few hours per week to scenes and protocols. Then they wonder why the dynamic keeps falling apart when "real life" takes over.
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The problem? You're running...
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Are you strong enough to be a Dom? Not if you can't handle emotion.
Let me ask you directly: are you strong enough to be a dominant?
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Not strong enough to tell her what to do. Strong enough to actually lead her.
Because real strength isn't about being unmoved by emotion. It's about...
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Starting A Dom/sub Dynamic? 10 tips to help it go well
You're bringing D/s into your relationship, and you have no idea where to start. Or maybe you've been trying to make this work and something just isn't clicking.
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This episode covers the ten most important things...
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New Year Q&A with Dawn: Trust, Surrender, and 73 Orgasms in an hour
Dawn is back to kick off 2026! In this Q&A episode, we answer your questions about building trust in D/s dynamics, navigating vanilla decisions as a submissive, becoming more sexually open, and what to do when...
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The Final Dom Sub Devotion (of 2025)
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Episode 113: The Final Dom Sub Devotion (of 2025)
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In this special year-end episode, Andrew and Dawn reflect on a transformative 2025.Â
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After 113 consecutive weeks of podcasting, Andrew announces...
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Answering Your Toughest Questions on Dominance, Monogamy, Polyamory, Spirituality and More
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In this raw, unscripted episode, Andrew tackles the toughest questions from Instagram followers—covering everything from spirituality and authenticity to jealousy, commitment, and what real dominance...
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To Your Ego, Real Polarity Feels Like a Toxic Relationship
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In this powerful episode, Andrew tackles the aspects of polarized relationships that most people don't expect—and aren't prepared for. While many are drawn to dominant-submissive dynamics for the...
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How I Dom Myself: The Private Practices Behind Dominant Presence
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In this deeply personal episode, Andrew pulls back the curtain on the daily practices and intentional habits that create the foundation for his dominance. This isn't about what he does TO Dawn—it's about what he...
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The Price We Pay for Hiding: Why Visibility Matters in BDSM
In this episode, Andrew speaks directly to one of the deepest sources of pain in the BDSM and power-exchange community: the instinct to hide.
He explores how secrecy masquerades as safety, how it keeps shame alive,...
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Why Won't She Just Let Go?
Episode 108: Why Won't She Just Let Go?
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In this companion episode to "Why Won't He Just Lead?", Andrew explores the genuine challenges women face when trying to surrender and submit—even when they...
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Why won't he just LEAD?
This episode aims to help women have some compassion for the challenges that men face stepping forward in their lives and relationships.Â
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And, I show why his leadership is not missing because he’s lazy or because he...
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10 Ways to Make Her Naturally More Submissive
In this episode, Andrew shares ten ways he’s learned to create a sense of calm, safety, and freedom in his submissive. Not through control or tactics, but through who he is.
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Early in his journey, Andrew thought...
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