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Last week, Dawn and I opened up a side of our relationship that we’ve kept private for years. If you’ve followed us for any amount of time, you know that we share a lot about our marriage, our devotion, and our 24/7 D/s dynamic. But until now, one part of our life has stayed behind the curtain:...
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Last week, I was on the podcast with Sir for the first time in six months answering some questions that our Instagram followers had for me. That was actually not the plan.Â
The plan was for me to rejoin THIS week, to record the episode that’s just been dropped today, to share what’s been...
In this special episode, Dawn returns to the podcast for the first time in six months to answer your questions—raw, real, and unscripted.
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We’re in the middle of launching the Rapture Self-Study Course, and this Q&A episode is the perfect companion. It’s an honest look at what life really looks...
Episode 93 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast talks about loving D/s relationships, and what it really takes to create and sustain them. This blog post outlines much of that episode, so if you enjoy this read, click below to listen in to the full episode.Â
Listen: https://infinitedevotion.com/podcasts...
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There’s a common fantasy in the world of Dominance and submission.
It goes something like this: “If the dynamic is strong enough… if the Dominant is consistent, if the submissive is devoted, there shouldn’t be any conflict. No disagreement. No friction.”
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But here’s the truth:
Disagreemen...
There’s a moment I’ve seen play out a thousand times: a woman, aching to be led, finally encounters a man who begins to step forward with real Dominance. Not bravado. Not control. Not coercion. But grounded, erotic, present masculine leadership.
And in that moment when her deepest craving is bein...
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“Letting go isn’t a process. It’s not a strategy. It’s not something you achieve over time. Letting go is the moment you stop holding on.”Â
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In Episode 89 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast, I sat down with Sven Loss for one of the most piercing and clarifying conversations I’ve had in a long tim...
A lot of men reach out to me with the same story.
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“She says she wants to submit… but she keeps resisting.”
“She used to be soft and obedient… now she questions everything I do.”
“She gets bratty, emotional, controlling… and it’s killing the dynamic.”
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And almost every time, they’re lookin...
Most people who talk about Divine Union are not actually living it.Â
Hell, most people who talk about it don’t even understand what the fuck they’re saying. They’re spreading their trauma, cloaking it in a word salad of pretty nuanced language, making it sound like they know something.Â
Most of th...
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Most men who come to me want to become better Dominants so they can lead their woman.
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What they often don’t realize—at least not at first—is that Dominance isn’t something you do to her.
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It’s something you become.
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It’s not about protocol, rules, titles, or how well you execute rituals...
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In a world obsessed with aesthetics, performance, and intellectual understanding, it’s easy to confuse the image of devotion with the embodiment of it.
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We see it all the time.
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A woman trying to be submissive—but from her head.
A man trying to be dominant—but from his fear.
Both performi...
At the beginning of this year, Dawn looked at me across the breakfast table and said something that changed everything:
“I’m done.”
There was no drama in it. No collapse. No long explanation.
Just a knowing.
She didn’t mean she was done with us.
She meant she was done trying to bring somethin...