Everyone knows their love language. Couples quiz each other on it over dinner. Therapists assign the book as homework. Knowing whether you are words of affirmation or physical touch or acts of service gets treated as the starting point of relational wisdom, the first real vocabulary most of us are e...
Somewhere along the way I started using the word untriggerable. I may have made it up. I may have picked it up from someone else and forgotten where. Either way, I've said it on this podcast and in coaching calls for years, and it keeps coming back to me. Men especially will bring it up months after...
Picture yourself in a car. You want to go somewhere, so you press the accelerator all the way down. At the same time, your other foot is pressed all the way down on the brake. And just to make sure, you've also got the emergency brake pulled up as far as it goes.
You are trying to get somewhere. Yo...
 On neediness, a man's closed heart, and the love he can only give himselfÂ
There is a question that almost every man asks when he first encounters this teaching, and he usually asks it with an edge in his voice, because he is certain he has found the flaw in it.
The question, in its various forms...
On embodiment, authentic desire, and the trust a woman has to keep with herself
There is a question that almost every woman who starts down the path of embodiment eventually asks, and she usually asks it with some embarrassment, because she suspects she is missing something obvious.
The question, ...
