Why I No Longer Have a Love Language (It Was Lying to Me) conscious relationship inner child work love languages Sep 21, 2026

Everyone knows their love language. Couples quiz each other on it over dinner. Therapists assign the book as homework. Knowing whether you are words of affirmation or physical touch or acts of service gets treated as the starting point of relational wisdom, the first real vocabulary most of us are e...

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How to Be Untriggerable conscious relationship embodiment emotional healing feminine embodiment inner child work inner work masculine embodiment nervous system podcast episode polarity relationships triggers Sep 14, 2026

Somewhere along the way I started using the word untriggerable. I may have made it up. I may have picked it up from someone else and forgotten where. Either way, I've said it on this podcast and in coaching calls for years, and it keeps coming back to me. Men especially will bring it up months after...

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The Kid Nobody Picked: An Open Q&A With My Men's Group d/s dynamic devotion embodiment inner child work inner work masculine leadership men's work nomadic living podcast episode power exchange rv life Sep 07, 2026

Every Wednesday morning I get on a call with the men inside Becoming a Dominant Man. They bring their questions about the course, their marriages, their kids, their fear, their sex lives, the thing they've been avoiding for six months. I answer. That's the format, and it works.

This time I flipped ...

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