“Letting go isn’t a process. It’s not a strategy. It’s not something you achieve over time. Letting go is the moment you stop holding on.” 

In Episode 89 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast, I sat down with Sven Loss for one of the most piercing and clarifying conversations I’ve had in a long tim...

A lot of men reach out to me with the same story.

“She says she wants to submit… but she keeps resisting.”

“She used to be soft and obedient… now she questions everything I do.”

“She gets bratty, emotional, controlling… and it’s killing the dynamic.”

And almost every time, they’re lookin...

Most men who come to me want to become better Dominants so they can lead their woman.

What they often don’t realize—at least not at first—is that Dominance isn’t something you do to her.

It’s something you become.

It’s not about protocol, rules, titles, or how well you execute rituals...

In a world obsessed with aesthetics, performance, and intellectual understanding, it’s easy to confuse the image of devotion with the embodiment of it.

We see it all the time.

A woman trying to be submissive—but from her head.

A man trying to be dominant—but from his fear.

Both performi...

At the beginning of this year, Dawn looked at me across the breakfast table and said something that changed everything:

“I’m done.”

There was no drama in it. No collapse. No long explanation.

Just a knowing.

She didn’t mean she was done with us.

She meant she was done trying to bring somethin...

The Identity Death That True Devotion Demands

What happens when the identity you spent years building —

even an identity in service to love, devotion, and the feminine —

becomes the very thing standing between you and the life you were born to live?

That’s the conversation I had with Chr...

Breaking Through Perfection: Exploring Expression and Healing with Madelyn Moon

You can feel it.

There’s a part of you that knows you’re not fully here.

Not fully expressed.

Not fully claimed.

Not fully alive.

You show up in your life, but something’s missing beneath the surface. Somethi...

We don’t talk about this enough:

Most men are in pain.

Not the kind you can see from the outside.

Not the kind you can explain in one neat sentence.

But the kind that hides beneath the surface.

The kind that gets numbed with distraction, performance, or quiet resignation.

And undernea...

Dom Sub Devotion Episode 79: Dom/sub is so much more than kink...it's deep intimacy

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Infinite Devotion Podcast Episode 78: Your Dominance Isn't About You - With Chris Bale

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Dom Sub Devotion Podcast Episode 77

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Episode 77...

Dom Sub Devotion Podcast Episode 76

You can watch this episode of Dom Sub Devotion on YouTube at https://youtu.be/iCHdVSFuB14

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Episode 76: E...