In this week's episode of Dom Sub Devotion, I asked my listeners and followers to send me some of their toughest questions. To challenge me. To question me if they think I'm full of shit. 

And then, in the episode, I spoke for an hour completely from the hip. With no prep or outlining, just speaki...

Everyone wants the passion. Everyone wants the intensity. Everyone wants that electric connection between masculine and feminine, between dominant and submissive, where desire doesn't fade and intimacy keeps deepening.

But here's what nobody tells you: the version of you that exists right now doe...

The foundation of dominance isn't what you do to your partner. It's how you show up for yourself

There's a common misconception about dominance in relationships: that it's primarily about what you do to or with your submissive partner. That it's about commands, control, or cultivating a particul...

Over the last five and a half years of running Infinite Devotion as a full-time business, I've witnessed something that deeply concerns me: how much the BDSM community lives in the shadows. There's a pervasive assumption that this is just the way it has to be, that shame and secrecy are inevitable...

There's a question I hear from men constantly. It sounds like frustration. It sounds like confusion. It sounds like exhaustion.

"Why won't she just let go?"

She says she wants to. She might even beg you to lead. She craves the feeling of surrender, of submission, of finally being able to relax ...

Devotion is one of those words that gets tossed around until it loses its teeth. People use it to mean discipline, loyalty, passion, even obligation. From the outside those things can look a lot like devotion. They can produce results. They can keep a relationship upright for a while. But they are...

Episode 93 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast talks about loving D/s relationships, and what it really takes to create and sustain them. This blog post outlines much of that episode, so if you enjoy this read, click below to listen in to the full episode. 

Listen: https://infinitedevotion.com/podcasts...

There’s a common fantasy in the world of Dominance and submission.

It goes something like this: “If the dynamic is strong enough… if the Dominant is consistent, if the submissive is devoted, there shouldn’t be any conflict. No disagreement. No friction.”

But here’s the truth:

Disagreemen...

There’s a moment I’ve seen play out a thousand times: a woman, aching to be led, finally encounters a man who begins to step forward with real Dominance. Not bravado. Not control. Not coercion. But grounded, erotic, present masculine leadership.

And in that moment when her deepest craving is bein...

“Letting go isn’t a process. It’s not a strategy. It’s not something you achieve over time. Letting go is the moment you stop holding on.” 

In Episode 89 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast, I sat down with Sven Loss for one of the most piercing and clarifying conversations I’ve had in a long tim...

A lot of men reach out to me with the same story.

“She says she wants to submit… but she keeps resisting.”

“She used to be soft and obedient… now she questions everything I do.”

“She gets bratty, emotional, controlling… and it’s killing the dynamic.”

And almost every time, they’re lookin...

Most men who come to me want to become better Dominants so they can lead their woman.

What they often don’t realize—at least not at first—is that Dominance isn’t something you do to her.

It’s something you become.

It’s not about protocol, rules, titles, or how well you execute rituals...