Most people who want a dominant/submissive dynamic are only applying those principles about 2% of the time. Then they wonder why the dynamic keeps falling apart.

Let me break down the math for you. In any given week, 2% of the hours would equal about three and a half hours. That's actually a pret...

Let me ask you a direct question: Are you strong enough to be a Dominant?

Not strong enough to tell her what to do. Not strong enough to enforce rules or play out scenes. I'm asking if you're strong enough to actually lead her.

Because here's what most men don't understand when they step into d...

You're about to bring dominance and submission into your relationship.

Maybe one of you has been fantasizing about this for years and finally worked up the courage to say something. Maybe you both discovered this together and you're excited to explore it. Maybe she came to you and said she wants...

Welcome to 2026! After a month-long break, Dawn and I returned to the podcast to answer your questions, and one theme kept surfacing beneath almost every single one: trust.

Not the fairy tale version of trust where nobody ever gets upset. The real kind. The kind that actually makes a dominant/sub...

 In this week's episode of Dom Sub Devotion, I asked my listeners and followers to send me some of their toughest questions. To challenge me. To question me if they think I'm full of shit. 

And then, in the episode, I spoke for an hour completely from the hip. With no prep or outlining, just speaki...

Everyone wants the passion. Everyone wants the intensity. Everyone wants that electric connection between masculine and feminine, between dominant and submissive, where desire doesn't fade and intimacy keeps deepening.

But here's what nobody tells you: the version of you that exists right now doe...

The foundation of dominance isn't what you do to your partner. It's how you show up for yourself

There's a common misconception about dominance in relationships: that it's primarily about what you do to or with your submissive partner. That it's about commands, control, or cultivating a particul...

Over the last five and a half years of running Infinite Devotion as a full-time business, I've witnessed something that deeply concerns me: how much the BDSM community lives in the shadows. There's a pervasive assumption that this is just the way it has to be, that shame and secrecy are inevitable...

There's a question I hear from men constantly. It sounds like frustration. It sounds like confusion. It sounds like exhaustion.

"Why won't she just let go?"

She says she wants to. She might even beg you to lead. She craves the feeling of surrender, of submission, of finally being able to relax ...

Devotion is one of those words that gets tossed around until it loses its teeth. People use it to mean discipline, loyalty, passion, even obligation. From the outside those things can look a lot like devotion. They can produce results. They can keep a relationship upright for a while. But they are...

Episode 93 of the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast talks about loving D/s relationships, and what it really takes to create and sustain them. This blog post outlines much of that episode, so if you enjoy this read, click below to listen in to the full episode. 

Listen: https://infinitedevotion.com/podcasts...

There’s a common fantasy in the world of Dominance and submission.

It goes something like this: “If the dynamic is strong enough… if the Dominant is consistent, if the submissive is devoted, there shouldn’t be any conflict. No disagreement. No friction.”

But here’s the truth:

Disagreemen...