Dawn has used the term “perfectionist” to describe herself, and its something I’ve worked very hard to help her let go of. 

“Perfectionist” is a label that she gave herself, or a label that someone gave her when she was young, that she took on and made a part of her identity. The truth is, though, ...

Note: This post was originally published in April 2021, when we were fairly new to sharing our Dom/sub dynamic online. A lot has changed and grown for us since then, but the heart behind this post still remains true, and I'm resharing it unedited for that reason. 

We’ve been more open about our D...