Dominance Starts Inside You - Dom Sub Devotion Episode 86

Most men who come to me want to become better Dominants so they can lead their woman.

What they often don’t realize—at least not at first—is that Dominance isn’t something you do to her.

It’s something you become.

It’s not about protocol, rules, titles, or how well you execute rituals.

It’s about your inner state.

Your values.

Your embodiment.

Your ability to live rooted in clarity, self-trust, and power.

And when you build that internal Dominant frame, it doesn’t just transform your relationship—it transforms your entire life.

You don’t become Dominant to get a submissive.

You become Dominant to become a man worth submitting to.

I recorded Episode 86 of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast to show you exactly how this work ripples out into every part of your life—not just your bedroom.

We covered how inner Dominance changes:

• The way you talk to yourself

• The way you lead your business or career

• The way you make decisions (without overthinking or deferring)

• The way you parent your children

• The way people feel around you

• The way you show up in rooms, in deals, in chaos, in conflict

• Your boundaries, your emotional presence, your energy

• Your health, your grooming, your standards

• Your capacity to live in spiritual, creative, and relational alignment

This isn’t about trying harder to lead her.

It’s about living a life that proves you’re a leader—with or without her obedience.

That’s what makes it safe for her to let go.

Leadership isn’t a demand. It’s a way of being.

The men I’ve worked with in my Becoming a Dominant Man course and private coaching all say the same thing after a few months:

“I came for better dynamics with my woman.

But I’m staying because this has changed my entire life.”

They show up differently with their children.

They walk into their workplace with certainty.

They stop needing approval in social settings and start radiating ease.

They make more money. They get fit.

They respect themselves again.

All of that—not because they learned tricks, but because they became different men. 

That’s the power of inner Dominance.

Want to begin?

I created a free 7-day email series called Unshakeable that will walk you through how to start embodying the kind of Dominance I talk about in this episode.

When you sign up, you’ll also get free one-week access to Becoming a Dominant Man—my signature course for men who want to root their leadership in truth, not performance.

You’ll even get an invite to join one of our live weekly men’s group calls.

No fluff. No empty motivation. Just the structure, insight, and challenge you need to become the man your whole life has been waiting for.

Sign up now → infinitedevotion.com/unshakeable 

Because Dominance doesn’t belong in just one part of your life. 

It belongs in all of it.

And the more congruent your life becomes—the more clearly you live in integrity, power, and purpose—the more deeply your submissive will feel safe letting go.

That’s how you lead.

Not through force.

But through embodiment.

→ Listen to the full episode here 

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