Who We Are & What We Stand For

One hundred episodes.

What began as an experiment, an idea to share more than Instagram captions and 90-second reels, has become a weekly rhythm of truth-telling, devotion, and opening our lives for the world to see.

When we launched the Dom Sub Devotion podcast two years ago, we weren’t sure how far it would go. We only knew that we wanted to speak honestly about our marriage, our D/s dynamic, and the lessons we were learning along the way.

Now, 100 episodes later, this podcast has reached millions of people. Some resonate deeply. Some project their fears and judgments. But through it all, we’ve stayed committed to sharing...not because we owe anyone an explanation, but because opening our lives has been part of our own devotion, and we hope it inspires others to find their own truth.

This episode is a celebration, but it’s also a reintroduction. A reminder of who we are, what we stand for, and why we share our lives through Infinite Devotion.

Who We Are

We’ve been together for nearly 17 years, married for almost 15, and living a 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic for the past six and a half.

This doesn’t mean kink is running 24 hours a day, seven days a week. It means our relationship is rooted in polarity. Andrew leading, Dawn surrendering. Sir and submissive. Masculine and feminine. That framework is woven into the way we live, love, and create.

It’s not a costume. It’s not a set of rules. It’s not even primarily about kink. It’s about devotion. Choosing ourselves, and choosing each other, every single day, and deepening into intimacy, eroticism, and truth over the long term.

What We Stand For

From the beginning, Infinite Devotion has been built on values. Our number one value is truth. Living in reality rather than seeking approval or trying to perform.

Other values follow naturally:

• Freedom over conformity: not living by scripts, but by what’s authentic.

• Erotic expression as a path to selfhood: because our sexuality is our life force.

• Courage to live your way: even when it breaks the rules others hold sacred.

• Devotion: not codependency, but the discipline of choosing yourself and each other, again and again.

This is what makes our path unique. We don’t use D/s as a mask to hide behind, or as a justification for codependent patterns. We live it as a way to become more whole, more alive, more ourselves.

Why We Share

This is important: we’re not here to tell you how to do D/s. 

Our podcast, our writing, our courses, and yes, even our OnlyFans, are not about giving you a blueprint to copy. They’re about showing you what has worked for us, in the hope that you can learn from the principles and apply them in your own way.

We want you to take what resonates, and leave what doesn’t.

We share because it’s part of our truth. Because it excites us. Because devotion without expression feels incomplete.

And we share to give an example of what becomes possible when you combine long-term love with erotic freedom, leadership with surrender, truth with courage.

Why Devotion Matters

The depth we’ve built isn’t a weekend scene. It isn’t something you can create in a few months of experimentation. It’s the fruit of years of commitment, patience, and choosing each other again and again.

Devotion is the foundation that makes freedom possible. Without trust, without time, without the safety of knowing we’re in this for good, the walls don’t come down. The surrender doesn’t happen. The growth can’t take root.

Devotion is what makes it possible to laugh together, cry together, unravel fear together, and still choose each other in the morning.

That’s why Infinite Devotion isn’t just a name. It’s a way of life.

What Comes Next

Episode 100 is a milestone, but it’s not the finish line.

Going forward, we’ll continue to share our marriage, our dynamic, and our erotic expression. We’ll continue to explore themes of truth, freedom, unconditional love, and the power of D/s as a path to wholeness.

And we’ll keep inviting you not to copy us, but to find your own way.

Because the point of all this isn’t to live like us. It’s to live like you.

Listen to the Episode

This was a fun episode to record, and we really hope you enjoy listening. Here's to the next 100!

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Explore More

If you’re ready to go deeper, here are some places to start:

• Rapture — a course on devotional D/s and erotic embodiment.

• Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity.

• Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a container that actually works for your relationship.

•  And for those who want to see our erotic expression: OnlyFans.

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100 episodes in, we’re just getting started. 

Here’s to devotion, to freedom, and to the courage to live in truth together.