We always try to get better, not be "good enough"

Episode 38 - We always try to get better, not be "good enough"

In any relationship where we are growing and evolving, we have to expect that our needs and desires are going to change as we change. But in relationships, it can be challenging to hear that our partner wants or needs more from us.

On one hand we might say we want to grow together. But then, when our partner grows and has new needs and desires, can we step forward to meet them?

There is perhaps nothing that has changed more for us as we have grown together through the evolution of our power exchange relationship than our ability to meet each other’s desires for more with openness and acceptance.

And in this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we discuss how we’ve learned to give each other the space inside of our relationship to evolve without feeling threatened by that desire to grow. Enjoy!


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