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How to be a submissive and never lose your self respect
Submissive Foundations. A self-study course from Dawn and Andrew for women who long to surrender and are afraid of what it might cost them.
"In 2018, eight years into our very vanilla marriage, Andrew asked me to be his submissive. I didn't even know what that meant. My biggest fear was losing myself. What actually happened is that I found myself."
Dawn
Submissive Foundations is a self-study course from Infinite Devotion for women who want to surrender inside a loving relationship without losing themselves. Five hours of video with Dawn and Andrew, practices and journal prompts, plus two guides: How to Talk to Dominant Men and Online Dating as a Submissive. $197, or two payments of $99.
Start Submissive FoundationsAre you over feeling
Afraid
of what might happen if you let go of control.
Frustrated
that your mind wants one thing and your body resists.
Lost
on how to actually live this way and keep your self respect.
Unable to trust
yourself, men, or anyone.
That is ungrounded submission: the thrill and the fun of surrender built on nothing underneath it. The fix is a foundation, and that is what this course builds.
Who is Submissive Foundations for?
For you if
- You want submission inside a loving, healthy relationship
- You want to speak up for your needs without becoming demanding
- You want your surrender to come from strength, with your current Dominant or your next one
Not for you if
- You want to be submissive in the bedroom only
- You aren't interested in your own emotional experience
- You think D/s is just kink
Why does submission feel so hard?
Submission feels hard when you're trying to do it, like a performance, instead of letting it flow from who you are. You try to live a fantasy version, or squeeze into someone else's, and your body resists because none of it is built on you. A foundation of self-love is what makes letting go safe.
Has it ever felt like you're having to work for your submission? Like you're convincing yourself, or your partner, that it's real? That's doing submission. It leaves you with a set of actions and the feeling of playing a part, and it doesn't feel good to you or to your Dominant.
When you build a solid foundation first, your submission flows from who you are. Then it's yours.
What's inside Submissive Foundations?
Five hours of video with Dawn and Andrew, then practices and journal prompts to connect each lesson to your real life.
- Slowing Down. The indispensable first step.
- Getting Out of Your Head.
- Facing Your Fears. Abandonment, letting go of control, the unknown.
- Using Your Voice. Speaking up without becoming demanding.
- Play, Fun, and Pleasure.
Two guides, included
- How to Talk to Dominant Men. Communicating as a submissive inside a healthy dynamic: what's okay, what's not, how to handle disagreements.
- Online Dating as a Submissive. For single women: writing a profile that attracts the right men, what to ask, and who to trust.
Who teaches this
Andrew and Dawn have been married for more than fourteen years and have lived a 24/7 Dominant/submissive marriage since 2018, when Andrew asked and Dawn said yes after eight years of a vanilla marriage that had gone quiet. Everything on this site was lived before it was taught. They host the Infinite Devotion podcast and work one-on-one with a small number of individuals and couples.
Dawn teaches this course from her own surrender, and from the hundreds of women she and Andrew have coached through theirs.
What women say
"I've never quite been able to put my finger on why submission was so hard for me. Why it felt so impossible to let go of control. Andrew and Dawn helped me see what I've been missing all along."
S.A., Submissive Foundations
"I never imagined that I could be a submissive and have it feel this empowering. The way Andrew and Dawn have helped me connect my submission to my authentic self has changed everything for me."
V.P., Submissive Foundations
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Want both sides of it, with your partner? Rapture is where we teach the whole dynamic together.
Questions women ask before starting
Is this private?
Yes. Your purchase and your name are seen only by Infinite Devotion and the payment processor. There is no group, no forum and no public list. You watch on your own, at your own pace.
Will this teach me how to be a good submissive?
It teaches you how to make submission work for you. There is no right or wrong way to submit; there is a grounded way and an ungrounded way, and this course builds the ground.
Will you answer my relationship questions?
Not inside the course. For private work, Andrew offers one-on-one coaching for submissives and couples, in 12 and 24 session packages. The D/s coaching page explains how to apply.
I'm single. Is this for me?
Yes. Building your foundation before you meet him is the best thing you can do for both of you, and the Online Dating as a Submissive guide is included for exactly this.
How long do I have access?
For life.
Is there a refund?
No. You get immediate access to everything, so purchases are final. If you're unsure, start with the free Self Respecting Submissive Woman guide.
From Dawn
My desire for you in Submissive Foundations is to share some of what I've learned for myself, so you can build a solid foundation inside yourself. So that when you submit to a Dominant man, you find a deep, loving connection: with him, and with yourself.
See you on the inside.
Start Submissive FoundationsNot ready? Get the free guide, The Self Respecting Submissive Woman.
Last updated October 2026