Coaching for Women
You can set it all down here.
You're the one who keeps everything running. The calendar, the kids, the house, his moods, your mother's feelings, the thing at work nobody else noticed. You hold all of it, and you make it look easy.
And you're tired.
Maybe you can't remember the last time you felt at home in your own body. Maybe desire feels like something that used to belong to you, or like one more thing on the list. And pleasure? Aliveness? Joy? Those might feel like long lost memories.
Maybe you've gotten so good at being fine that no one, including you, knows what's really going on underneath anymore.
None of that means something is wrong with you. A girl learned that being capable, or pleasing, or easy to be around was the safest way through, and she did it beautifully. The woman underneath is still there, waiting for it to be safe enough to come back.
You've tried to relax on command
You've taken the bath, booked the retreat, downloaded the meditation app. You've read about your nervous system and your attachment style. Maybe you've told yourself to just want him again, and then felt like a failure when your body wouldn't go along with it.
You can't think your way into feeling safe. Your body has been protecting you for a long time, and it has good reasons. It softens when it's met. It closes when it's pushed.
So we don't push. That's where we start.
What we do together
We move at your pace. Always.
In our sessions, we listen to what your body has been trying to tell you. Your tired, your no, your wanting. Each one is a signal worth hearing, and none of them is a problem to fix. We go gently back to the places where you learned to hold your breath, and we give the younger you what she needed and didn't get.
I'll be honest about what I see, and careful with how I say it. You won't be steered toward some version of womanhood you're supposed to perform. Most women who come to me have performed plenty already. What we're after is you: your real feelings, your real desire, and a body that feels like home again.
Trust gets built here slowly, on your terms. You decide how far we go and when we pause.
Why work with a man?
It's a fair question, and you should ask it.
Many of the women I work with have spent their lives managing men. Reading them, soothing them, bracing for them. Sitting across from a man who wants nothing from you, who isn't asking you to take care of him, and who stays steady while you feel whatever you feel, can be its own kind of medicine.
I also spent years on the other side of a woman's silence. I know what it looks like from there, and I've seen what becomes possible when a woman finally feels safe enough to come back to herself.
Some women know right away that this is what they need. Some aren't sure, and that's okay. The free call is there so you can feel it out before you decide anything.
In their words
"Andrew, your ability to see straight through to my soul, to see all of my crazy and my darkness and my fear, and never waver has been the medicine my spirit has needed for my whole life."
V.D. - Client
"People look at me and think, wow, I want to feel that alive. They aren't just looking at me. They're looking at Andrew reflected back in me. Aliveness is what every woman was born to live in, and Andrew will help you find it inside yourself."
Dawn - Andrew's wife
Ways to work with me
Every container includes email support between sessions, so you can reach me when something comes up, while it's still fresh.
Start here
Single session
$397 ยท 75 minutes
A gentle first step, or focused time on something specific. If you join a container within 30 days, the full $397 comes off your investment.
By application
Three months
$4,200, or three payments of $1,400
Weekly sessions for three months, up to 12, plus email support between sessions. Room to work with a specific pattern or season of your life and find your footing.
By application
Six months
$8,000, or six monthly payments
Weekly sessions for six months, up to 24, plus email support between sessions. Your body sets the pace of this work, and six months gives it time to reach the roots without being rushed.
How it starts
1
Apply
A short application, so I can understand where you are and what you're longing for.
2
Talk
A free 20 to 30 minute call to get to know each other and feel whether this is right for you. There's no pressure. If it isn't a fit, I'll tell you, and point you somewhere better if I can.
3
Begin
We set your regular weekly time and begin, at your pace.
All one-on-one coaching is with me, Andrew. Sessions happen over video, wherever you are.
Another way to work with me
Communion
If you'd rather do this work alongside other women, Communion is a six-month group for ten women, led by Dawn and me. One daily practice, three live calls a month, and a slow path home to your body, your feelings, your desire and your truth. Begins January 2027.
Questions
How does scheduling work?
Your coaching runs for a set time frame, three or six months from your first session. When we begin, we'll choose a regular weekly time that fits your life, and that time is held for you every week until we finish.
What if something comes up?
Life happens. If you get sick or something comes up, let me know at least 24 hours ahead and I'll do my best to find another time within your three or six months. With less than 24 hours' notice, that week's session is missed.
What if I can't make every week?
The end date stays where it is. Every week you show up for is a session, and a week you can't make doesn't carry forward. You'll get the most from this by protecting that time, and how many sessions you use is up to you.
What if you need to cancel?
If I ever can't hold a session, I'll make it up, and I'll extend your end date if that's what it takes so you don't lose the time.
She's been waiting the whole time.
If something in you softened while you read this, trust that. Apply and we'll talk, with no pressure. Come exactly as you are.
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