You Can't Submit and Stay in Charge at the Same Time | Infinite Devotion Episode 127
How do you feel submissive when your whole life asks you to be in control? I think it's the wrong question.
FREE for submissive women: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman, Dawn's manifesto
https://infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep127&utm_content=notes_top
GO DEEPER: Living Surrendered, Dawn's workshop on letting go of control
https://infinitedevotion.com/living-surrendered?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep127&utm_content=notes_top
Most of the messages I get come from women asking how to feel submissive after a day of running everything at work and at home. In this episode I answer it directly: you can't be in control and submissive at the same time, because they're opposites. Submission is being the one who isn't deciding. The better question is why you need to control everything, and whether you have the capacity to trust.
I talk about what happens when a good man is ready to lead and you won't let go: he won't force you, so he steps back, and you stay convinced men like that don't exist. We get into the choices that put you in control, the fear underneath them, and why your submission is yours to offer. Then the practical part: question everything, slow your life down, let some things drop, and learn to lead with receiving.
If you can't stop running everything long enough to feel your submission, Dawn made Living Surrendered for you. It's her workshop on how she learned to let go of control, with the full Q&A. Watch it here:
https://infinitedevotion.com/living-surrendered?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep127&utm_content=notes_bridge
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