Sovereign Desire: How Men Build Magnetic Power | Infinite Devotion Episode 122
Why does wanting something you don't have feel like weakness, and what changes when a man can hold his desire without chasing it?
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Last week I spoke to women about separating desire from fulfillment. This week I turn to men. Most of the problems men bring me come down to discomfort with wanting, because desire we can't satisfy feels like weakness. So we either stuff it and call it stoicism, or we grasp and get controlling and manipulative. Both cut us off from desire itself, and being a Dominant man means being sovereign over your wanting.
I talk about desire as a compass, how boys get broken from their own wanting, and why so many men hit their forties feeling dead inside. We get into the difference between a magnetic man and an empty man, and between wanting her and needing her, because a need becomes pressure she will shut down under. I explain why polarity lives in the space between wanting and having, and I close with a simple practice for feeling your desire fully without being enslaved to it.
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