The Gasoline & The Match: Understanding Feminine Desire | Infinite Devotion Episode 121

What if wanting, without rushing to get, is the whole point? Part one of two, for the women.

FREE for submissive women: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman, Dawn's manifesto
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GO DEEPER: Living Surrendered, Dawn's workshop on letting go of control
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This is part one of a two-part series on separating desire from fulfillment, and this week I speak to the feminine side. Most of us learned early to stop wanting what we can't have, or to work until we get it. A woman who moves toward every desire, fixes everything and fills herself up loses her capacity to be met. I use the image of a full can of gasoline: inert on its own, a holy fire the moment the match touches it.

We get into the feminine art of holding space for what isn't real yet, why so many women aren't receiving more from men, and desire as a prayer and a compass. I talk about discernment, deciding who gets to come close with that match, and why sexual desire is the path back to aliveness. And I share what I think is the most important point for women in this episode: receiving starts with receiving desire from yourself.

If you're always planning, fixing and moving toward what you want, and you can't seem to relax and be met, Dawn made Living Surrendered for you. It's her workshop on how she let go of control, with the full Q&A. Watch it here:
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