Starting A Dom/sub Dynamic? 10 tips to help it go well | Infinite Devotion Episode 115

Starting a Dom/sub dynamic, or trying to fix one that never quite clicked? These are the ten things I wish every couple knew before they began.

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Dawn and I are seven years into our dynamic, and I've coached a lot of couples through the first steps of theirs. In this episode I share the ten lessons that matter most: why one of you will always want it more, why the submissive can never lead the Dominant into his role, why going slow gets you further, and why you need to build in time to simply be human together.

Then we go deeper. Why the real conversations have to happen long before any contract, why every rule needs a why, and why consent is really about access to authentic desire. If you can't both say no, what you have is codependency. I also talk about meeting resistance with curiosity, weaving the dynamic into your whole life, dating each other for good, and the one thing that matters more than any technique: just keep going.

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