The World Is Terrified of a Free Woman (And So Are You) | Infinite Devotion Episode 97

Every man says he wants a wild woman, and every woman says she wants to be free. So why are we all so afraid of it?

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Early in our dynamic I realized the authority Dawn granted me could be used to constrain her or to set her free, and I chose freedom. In this solo episode I talk about genuine desire: what it is, how it differs from obligation and performance, and why so many women have cut themselves off from it. I share how I first wanted Dawn free only inside the box I built, and how I collapsed when her honest desire told me she wasn't attracted to me when I was 80 or 90 pounds heavier.

For men, I get into why we choke out the fire we claim to want, the boyhood need for a mother's steadiness, and how polarity collapses when we manage her to soothe ourselves. For women, I talk about confusing wanting with worthiness and rationing your desire to fit someone else's comfort. Freedom is expensive for both of you, so I close with how to start making space for real desire: wanting without editing, building inner strength that doesn't need her to shrink, and choosing the long road of devotion.

Making space for her real desire, and holding it without collapsing, sits at the heart of everything Dawn and I teach. Rapture is where we go deeper into desire, intimacy and polarity inside a D/s relationship. Start it here:
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