Live Q&A - Real Talk on D/s, Inner Work, and Our Actual Life | Infinite Devotion Episode 92
You sent in your questions about how Dawn and I actually live our dynamic day to day. I answer them live.
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I took your questions on an Instagram live, some about our life and some looking for advice. I talk about why the Dominant is the solution whatever the problem is, the difference between a wounded inner child and a man who likes Legos, and how I asked Dawn to be my submissive with years of fantasy and almost no research. I answer the wife who asked how to get her husband to dom her harder, the shy woman afraid to tell her boyfriend she wants D/s, and the submissive whose Dom goes dismissive and avoidant under stress.
I also share how we live it: D/s on the road in an RV, the O-ring on Dawn's collar, how I handle money, Dawn calling me Sir around friends and family, and what happens when she's sick. There are no breaks from the dynamic, so I talk about keeping myself full, the two-way code of conduct in our contract, why we don't do punishments, and why a Dom who can't stop in a scene has lost his inner dominance.
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