“Men, I Believe You, I Believe In You” — Traver Boehm on Masculinity, Grief, and the Power of the Dark | Infinite Devotion Episode 81
Nobody believes men. Traver Boehm does, and he believes in them too.
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Traver Boehm is the founder of the Uncivilized men's movement and the author of Today I Rise, Man Uncivilized and 28 Days in Darkness. He tells how his own divorce turned into a year of phone calls with men who had nowhere else to go, and why he fell in love with the courage and sensitivity of men. We talk about a culture that labels men by their behaviors instead of asking what happened to the boy, and why the walls around a man's heart are there to protect something precious.
Traver shares why we can't selectively numb, how to swing into emotion without losing your structure, and why the mastery is moving between the primal and the emotional as the moment calls for it. I ask what would happen if you took one week off from your distractions. Then Traver takes us inside his 28 days in total darkness, what it taught him about death and who he is beneath every skill, and why he's going back in for 49.
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