Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth | Infinite Devotion Episode 63
What does it take for a submissive to be fully here, out of her head and into her body? Dawn and I talk about presence as the freedom submission can give.
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We start with a sauna and cold plunge morning and why cold plants you firmly in your body. Presence is a state of being, and if you have to force it, you're faking it. Dawn describes what being present feels like now, and how she spent years living in her head. I share why I want her to submit to me so I can set her free, and Dawn talks about Hurricane Rafael, her bleed week in hibernation, and the fear and control she carried around food and workouts.
We get into being okay with every possible outcome, why control is the opposite of submission, and why a Dominant has to garden his way there rather than hammer. I talk about introducing a new kink with persistence and patience, and what happens when my desire sets off her fear. Then I hand Dawn an open microphone to tell me if I'm being needy or pushy, and explain why a Dominant has to own it when he's wrong if he ever wants her to trust him when she is.
Leading her out of her head and into her body, with patience instead of force, is the heart of a living dynamic. Rapture is where Dawn and I show you how we cultivate that presence, desire and freedom together. Start it here:
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