Beyond Sacrifice: Dominance, self care, and giving from fullness | Infinite Devotion Episode 57
If you carry responsibility for her whole life, who is taking care of you? This one is for the Dominant men.
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When I teach men about dominance, it starts with taking 100% responsibility for your life. In a 24/7 dynamic that is a lot to hold, and you can only hold it from a place of fullness. Dawn and I talk about how I spent years sacrificing myself for everyone, running a covert contract where I gave everything and quietly expected it all back. I became a shell of a man, and Dawn shares honestly how that cost her desire for me.
We get into why self sacrifice is not a virtue, and the practical ways I now put myself at the top of the list: sleep, dressing well and grooming, eating well, exercise and good water. I explain how putting myself first and putting her needs before mine work together, and why doing these things because she told me to would put her back in control. Dawn speaks to the men who are afraid she'll be upset, and I share why she will never feel about me differently than I feel about myself.
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