Living Fully: Enjoying our lives and D/s while “Doing The Work” together | Infinite Devotion Episode 49
How do you keep having fun together when one of you is deep in the hard inner work? Dawn and I talk it through.
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This summer was an intense season of growth for Dawn, and in this episode we talk about how to keep enjoying life while you're in the middle of the deep stuff. Dawn shares what she has needed from my leadership: real experiences like live music on Wednesday nights, acceptance of where she is in her cycle, and me staying present when her emotions run big. I talk about setting my own important things aside, because her needs come before mine and she's only in chaos to the extent that I'm not present.
We get into surrendering attachment to plans, Dawn learning she's allowed to ruin the moment, and why I can't let her feelings run our relationship. I explain projection, masculine and feminine integrity, the layers of glasses we all wear, and why showing her too much truth too soon only stirs more resistance. We close with why we keep specifics private, the koala bear ritual that softens her into my leadership, and how much we simply like each other.
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