How I control my submissive | Infinite Devotion Episode 37
What does it really mean to take control of your submissive, and how do you do it without becoming controlling?
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Control is one of the most charged words in power exchange. In this episode Dawn and I talk about what control meant to each of us growing up, the night she burst into tears and said "I need to be controlled," and how her submission turned into liberation.
Then I get into the Dominant's side: why self-control is Step Zero, why patience matters more than force, and why I've always aimed to use my control to give to her rather than take from her. The way we live it, control is more about what I won't let her do to herself than what she has to do for me.
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