How we make decisions in our D/s marriage | Infinite Devotion Episode 35
How do you make decisions as Dom and sub so she can let go of control and still feel heard?
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We recorded this one live, and it starts the way every episode starts: hi princess, hi sir. Dawn and I walk through how decisions actually get made in our dynamic, from date night to where we'll live next. Before the collar, Dawn's decisions came with overthinking and stress, and one of the first things I did was take many of them off her plate. I share how I decide from our values with truth at the top, why the first question is whether a decision even needs to be made, and how our Saturday date night, backup plan included, played out.
Dawn shares the freedom of saying what she wants and then truly letting it go, and I talk about how my old fear of upsetting her shaped every choice. We get into domineering versus dominant, why my heart has to open as wide as my control, and how her felt sense of a place shapes our move. Dawn shares the night I bought her personal training course, and how she can desire now without needing to have. We answer live questions, and close with what Dawn still decides for herself.
Who decides what, and how she stays heard while she lets go, is one of the first structures every dynamic needs. Structuring Your D/s Dynamic walks you through building yours, including decision-making, rules, rituals and communication. Start it here:
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