How we stay consistent in our D/s dynamic | Infinite Devotion Episode 34
How do you keep a Dom/sub dynamic consistent for years, even when life knocks you flat? Dawn and I share what kept ours steady through a rough month.
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We recorded this one still recovering from being sick twice in a month, days in a row when neither of us could show up the way we normally do. There was never any threat of falling out of our dynamic. Dawn shares how who she has become stays with her even when she feels awful, and the tears that came the first time we could finally lie down together again. I talk about surrendering to my own body, setting down responsibilities that matter to me, and noticing my resistance to receiving when she picked up the slack.
We get into the difference between being Dom/sub and doing Dom/sub, what I do that helps Dawn stay connected to her submission, and why my attention has to stay fixed on her. Consistency is the Dominant's responsibility, and there's no room for finger pointing. We talk about tying every rule and ritual to a why, reconnection rituals, why we keep talking about emotions when people ask about bondage, weaving the dynamic into ordinary moments like opening doors, and what the collar around her neck means to me after five and a half years.
Consistency comes from rituals tied to a why and woven into the life you already live. Structuring Your D/s Dynamic walks you through building those rules, rituals and connection points for your own dynamic. Start it here:
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