Finding ourselves through our Dom/sub marriage | Infinite Devotion Episode 32
Can two people find their own truest selves and grow closer at the same time? Dawn and I talk about how D/s made that possible for us.
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We recorded this one in the low phase of Dawn's cycle, and we start there, with her permission to show up exactly as she is. One of the first things I set out to do in our dynamic was to kill off the places we acted out of obligation, and that opens the door to authenticity. Dawn shares growing up trying to live perfectly, and I share the moment my dad told me to just do what I wanted. We talk about the seed of who you were born to be, the walls that get dropped on it, and how five years ago it was really our walls talking to each other.
Dawn shares crying over dinner as she touched a last thread of shame about not wanting to be in charge. We get into why authenticity is lonely, the need to belong, and how seeking it can turn two people into separate pillars. Then we talk about moving out of codependency, through independence, into truly depending on each other, the kind of safety that lets her fly, my role in leading her back to herself, and the fear she had to walk through that finding herself might lead her away from me.
Coming into your own truth and then choosing to depend on each other is the heart of a dynamic built on love. Rapture is where Dawn and I teach the whole of it, from polarity and surrender to intimacy that keeps deepening. Start it here:
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