D/s is not always BDSM | Infinite Devotion Episode 28
Anyone can figure out the bedroom. How do you live Dom and sub over breakfast on a Thursday morning?
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People sometimes ask why Dawn and I don't talk more about the kinky stuff. In this episode we explain why we teach D/s as a way of relating rather than a scene with a start and a stop. Commanding Dawn to kneel feels very different in a restaurant than in the bedroom, and the intensity that works for a weekend scene can feel harsh in daily life. Once love gets involved, everything from your past comes into play, and that's why couples so often lose this energy the same way the infatuation stage turns into a dead bedroom.
I talk about the Dominant as the embodiment of consciousness, seeing the truth in her that she has hidden, and why the truth about most people lives where they shut down. Dawn shares the big love she walled off as a girl and what opened when she surrendered. We get into what the pull to kink is really pointing at, the value of her emptiness, why surrender comes before submission, and how her desire, held without attachment, draws her open to my leadership.
Living D/s outside the bedroom asks both of you to bring your whole hearts, your history and your desire into the way you relate every day. Rapture is where Dawn and I teach that whole dynamic, from leadership and surrender to desire and intimacy. Start it here:
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