13th wedding anniversary episode - How D/s dynamics improved our marriage | Infinite Devotion Episode 22

On the eve of our 13th wedding anniversary, Dawn and I went live to talk about how a Dom/sub dynamic transformed our marriage.

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GO DEEPER: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic, build the structure that makes your deepest desires real
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We spent our first eight years doing marriage the way we thought it was done, and the last five inside a D/s dynamic. In this live episode we compare the two. We grew up around marriages where the best you could say was that people didn't hate each other, and we slid into our own version of roommates with benefits. The dynamic gave us a structure, a container, and real intention around how we relate.

We talk about how one decision maker ended the fights that come from two people trying to get their way, why there's no space left for resentment to build, and how I had to take my own life back before I could lead us anywhere. Dawn shares how the structure let her walls come down and her old wounds heal. And I answer a question from the chat about how to show her I'm listening without judging: by simply receiving her, without trying to fix anything.

The structure is what changed our marriage. Structuring Your D/s Dynamic shows you how to build yours, from the vision and values to the rules and rituals that fit your real life. Start it here:
https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep022&utm_content=notes_bridge

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