We don't want equality in our relationship | Infinite Devotion Episode 13
Why would two people choose a relationship that is deliberately unequal? Dawn and I explain what we found when we stopped trying to be the same.
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A couple of years into our dynamic, Dawn and I realized something deeper was happening than the roles we had signed up for. In this episode we talk about what dominance, submission, structure and chaos actually mean to us, starting with the fact that I am a Dominant man first, which means inner strength and control of myself before anything happens between us. My job is to bring structure and order to our life. Dawn's experience of submission is surrender, the liberation of no longer needing to make sense of everything.
We get into why chaos and the feminine get treated as bad, and how Dawn's old masculine armor kept her from wanting anything for herself. I talk about the trap of needing to please her, and why leadership has to come from abundance rather than a fear of her ever being upset. Then we share the walls we both built against each other's love, what it took to let them down, and why being 100% of each other's opposite is what makes our marriage keep getting better.
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