Our #1 Secret To A Successful Loving D/s Dynamic | Infinite Devotion Episode 4

What is the number one secret behind a D/s dynamic that is loving, real and lasting?

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For Dawn and me the answer is patience. The default image of D/s is immediate command and obey, and that never got the job done for us, because what we both wanted was authentic submission. Dawn shares how much of her early submission was past programming and people pleasing, and why coming into the real thing meant a big inward emotional unraveling that neither of us could rush. I talk about the fantasies I carried into a dynamic with a real woman, and why I could never force her out of an authentic reaction.

We get into the times it felt like her emotions were dominating the relationship, and what changed when I stopped seeing her feelings as separate from me and started leading her through them. Dawn tells the story of the first time I thanked her for being so patient with me, and we talk about the patience and compassion each of us had to extend to ourselves. We finish with our advice for couples building a dynamic: respect the humanity and history of you both, start small, and leave each other wanting more.

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