Growing into authentic loving Dominance | Infinite Devotion Episode 2
What did it take for me to grow from a vanilla husband into the Dominant Dawn could truly follow? We get honest about all of it.
FREE for dominant men: 12 Steps To Dominance
https://infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep002&utm_content=notes_top
GO DEEPER: Becoming a Dominant Man, the 12-step path to the authentic Dominance she can trust
https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep002&utm_content=notes_top
One of the most overlooked parts of a Dom/sub relationship is the work it takes for the Dominant to become a healthy, strong leader. In this episode Dawn and I talk about what I had to change. I've never been a leader who leads with a stick, so we have no punishments in our dynamic. Dominance had to come from within, and early on I was doing the stuff without it feeling real. When I fell apart, she either fell apart too or stepped in and took over.
I share how I let go of being a victim, learned to live at cause, and stopped seeking validation. We talk about why trying to please her actually put her in charge, the vulnerability of Dominance, and learning to speak up for what I want even when she doesn't want it. Dawn reflects on what my collapses felt like to her, and how my growth in discipline, fitness and integrity let her surrender more deeply. Her ability to follow equals the integrity in my inner world.
Everything I had to change is in Becoming a Dominant Man, the 12-step path to the authentic Dominance she can trust. Start it here:
https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=ds_ep002&utm_content=notes_bridge
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