No More Mr. Nice Guy: Why Nice Guys Can't Be Dominant Men

 

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Dr. Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is one of the most important books in men's development, but most men completely miss how Nice Guy patterns poison their ability to lead in a D/s dynamic.

In this episode, I walk through the core lessons from the book and show exactly how each Nice Guy tendency works against authentic dominance:

  • Covert contracts that turn your leadership transactional
  • Approval-seeking that gives her all your power
  • Self-abandonment that inverts the polarity
  • Using control to manage her emotions instead of leading
  • Hiding yourself behind the "Dominant" role
  • Learning dominance from women instead of men
  • Performing instead of being direct

The path isn't killing the Nice Guy. It's integration: keeping the heart and sensitivity while dropping the manipulation and covert contracts.

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