Coaching for Men
You've been holding everything together. Who's been holding you?
You're the one people count on. At work, at home, with the family. You show up, you handle it, you keep the peace.
And somewhere along the way, you lost track of what you actually want.
Maybe you come home and read her mood before your keys hit the counter. Maybe you give and give, with a quiet ledger running underneath that you'd never say out loud. Maybe the bedroom has gone quiet and you've gotten very good at not bringing it up.
All of that made sense once. A boy learned that being useful was the safest way to be loved, and he got very good at it. It's just costing you more than you can afford now.
You already have the information
You've read the books and listened to the podcasts. Maybe you've done a men's weekend, tried being more assertive, tried being more patient, tried harder.
You can probably explain your patterns better than most therapists could. And all that knowing hasn't touched what happens in your body when she goes quiet. Or taught you what to do when she gets loud.
Change happens underneath the knowing. That's where we work.
What we do together
In our sessions, we go underneath the behavior to where it started. We work with what's happening in your body, alongside your thoughts about it. We spend time with the boy who decided it wasn't safe to want things, because he's the one still running the show.
I'll tell you what I see, directly, even when it's uncomfortable. And I'll stay with you while you feel it. You'll never be shamed for a pattern. Every one of them was built by a kid doing the best he could.
You won't walk away with a script or a new persona to perform. Most men who come to me have already tried building a better version of themselves. We go looking for the man you buried instead: your wants, your edge, your warmth, and a word you can trust again because you've started keeping it to yourself.
Why I do this work
For years, I was that man. I built a successful business and became weightless at my own front door.
One night I lay next to my wife, making an organized case for why she should want me. Halfway through, I heard myself.
What changed everything was going back for the man I'd buried under all the pleasing and performing. It's the same work I do with men now, and the same work I'm still doing on myself.
Ways to work with me
Every container includes email support between sessions, so you can bring me what comes up in real life while it's still happening.
Start here
Single session
$397 ยท 75 minutes
A first step, or focused time on something specific. If you join a container within 30 days, the full $397 comes off your investment.
By application
Three months
$4,200, or three payments of $1,400
Weekly sessions for three months, up to 12, plus email support between sessions. Room to work with a specific pattern or crossroads and find your footing.
By application
Six months
$8,000, or six monthly payments
Weekly sessions for six months, up to 24, plus email support between sessions. This work goes deeper with time. Six months gives it room to reach the roots, and to hold as your life changes around it.
How it starts
1
Apply
A short application, so I can understand where you are and what you're looking for.
2
Talk
A free 20 to 30 minute call to get to know each other and feel out whether we're a good fit. If we're not, I'll tell you, and point you somewhere better if I can.
3
Begin
We set your regular weekly time and start the work.
All one-on-one coaching is with me, Andrew. Sessions happen over video, wherever you are.
Another way to work with me
The Few
A six-month group for men, capped at ten, beginning January 2027.
The Few is named as such for one very powerful reason: Very few men ever actually follow through on going deep within themselves.ย
Those that do are the rare men. The special men. The men who reclaim their heart and their ability to feel, while retaining their spine and their power.ย
Those two things don't seem to go together in today's world. Most men either go all soft or all hard. Six month in The Few, and you'll be one of the rare men who embodies the kind of gentleness that only true strength can afford.ย
Questions
How does scheduling work?
Your coaching runs for a set time frame, three or six months from your first session. When we begin, we'll choose a regular weekly time that fits your life, and that time is held for you every week until we finish.
What if something comes up?
Life happens. If you get sick or something comes up, let me know at least 24 hours ahead and I'll do my best to find another time within your three or six months. With less than 24 hours' notice, that week's session is missed.
What if I can't make every week?
The end date stays where it is. Every week you show up for is a session, and a week you can't make doesn't carry forward. You'll get the most from this by protecting that time, and how many sessions you use is up to you.
What if you need to cancel?
If I ever can't hold a session, I'll make it up, and I'll extend your end date if that's what it takes so you don't lose the time.
He's still in there.
If this sounds like you, apply and we'll talk. Come as you are, including the parts you've been keeping out of sight.
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