Introducing
Structuring Your D/s Dynamic
The course that will show you how to write a contract, rules, rituals, and more...
for a successful dynamic that works with your life, and grows along with you.
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Build the D/s dynamic that makes your deepest desires a reality
We've learned a lot about how to set up a D/s dynamic for success.
In this course, we share it all with you.
Lots of couples start out in D/s full of excitement, desire, and with every intention to make these power exchange dynamics a part of their life.
Then, life happens. Things come up. Challenges get in the way. And things just fizzle.
The reality is, the way you structure your dynamic, including your contract, your rules, your rituals, your tasks, and everything else, will either support your dynamic and keep it healthy...
or end up feeling like a burden.
What's the difference between a successful dynamic and one that falls apart?
That's what we teach in this course.
We teach you step by step how to build a solid structure that works with your real life, your unique desires, and designed to grow and evolve as both of you grow and evolve.
So it fits the life you're living, and you never outgrow it.
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Learn from our experience
(and our mistakes)
Six years ago, I asked my wife to become my submissive.
When she agreed, we did what most people do. We found a contract online, modified it a little, wrote some rules and rituals, and started off into our D/s journey.
Only that contract got stale pretty quickly. Life got busy. It got stuck in a folder somewhere, and though we continued as Dominant and submissive, we didn't really look at it again.
Eventually, we realized the need for more solid structure, but also that the contract needed to be something much more personal to us and our lives.
How I've structured our D/s dynamic NOW is so different from how it was at first, because it's real. It's authentic to us. And it's connected to a deeper purpose and meaning.
And all of this was learned the hard way. And you can avoid all the mistakes we made and follow the process we use now and teach to all of our clients in our D/s relationship coaching business!
Testimonials for Infinite Devotion
I.A.
I am so blessed to call these two my teachers. I have never felt so seen. So understood. So known.
G.K.
When I met Andrew & Dawn in real life, I was so relieved that they were THE SAME PEOPLE as they are online. It's so rare that people are so truly authentic.
N.D.
Working with Andrew has been life altering. He has a way of cutting through to what really matters and bringing clarity and purpose to even the most complex topics.
Inside 'Structuring Your D/s Dynamic' you'll find...
MODULE 1
Avoiding Pitfalls
Before getting started, you'll learn from some of our mistakes, and what we've learned in coaching hundreds of other D/s couples.
So you don't have to make the same mistakes for yourselves.
MODULE 2
Your Role in Creating Structure
Learn what is the Dominant's job, and what is the submissive's job, when it comes to creating structure, so you build the structure of your dynamic with the power exchange in mind.
MODULE 3
Conversation Guides
We guide you through seven different deep conversations, to help you both get on the same page with your desires, limits, fears, needs, and more.
MODULE 4
Where are you going?
Guided exercises that will help you create a sense of direction and purpose for the dynamic, so that it never gets stale and is always connected in both power exchange and love.
MODULE 5
Rules, Rituals, & More
Here's where we create our rules and rituals, along with a plan for enforcing them, and a plan for the Dominant's accountability. All with our step by step guides that include ideas, examples, and suggestions from our lives.
MODULE 6
Creating Your Contract
Finally, we help you create the contract out of all of this work. One that's based on YOUR desires, YOUR life, YOUR dynamic, and the real human beings that each of you are.
And...a big bonus!
We included a seventh module at NO EXTRA COST...to teach you how to maintain this dynamic over the long term.
Bonus Maintenance Module
Includes:
Communication Advice
How to handle the times when you need to set the dynamic down for a moment and have a real life, human to human conversation without the power dynamics at play.
Handling Conflict
Every couple will eventually find themselves having some sort of disagreement. A D/s dynamic can be incredibly valuable in helping to find your way through those challenges in a way that brings the relationship closer.
Changes & Renegotiations
Advice on how to handle changing desires, new curiosities, and when life requires a change in the structure you've created
Whose Role Is It?
Advice on where the Dominant leads and what the submissive's role is in the ongoing maintenance of the relationship and D/s dynamic.
